Why You Need Friends Who Will Tell You the Truth
Green Light Faith: Who is holding your rope? | DJay Akers

DJay Akers • Discipleship Pastor
August 31, 2026

7 Minute Read

Christians need community because faith was never designed to be carried alone, and because you need at least one person who will tell you the truth about yourself. There are seasons when your faith is strong, and you carry somebody else. There are also seasons when your faith is weak, and someone else has to carry you. Both are normal. Both are grace.

If you have ever assumed that a personal relationship with God is enough on its own, one of the strangest scenes in the Gospels pushes back. A group of friends heard that Jesus was teaching in a crowded house, and they could not get their paralyzed friend anywhere near Him. So they climbed up, tore open the roof, and lowered him down on a mat right in front of Jesus. It was reckless. It was a little crazy. And when Jesus looked up, the thing He responded to was their faith. Not just the faith of the man on the mat. Their faith.


Their Faith Had Hands and Feet

Sometimes we picture that man's helpers as reluctant participants, but he was clearly on board. Who else would let you lower them through a roof?

I remember back in my days as a youth pastor, we used to do something called sermon in the box. I would write Bible verses on slips of paper, put them in a box, and a small group would draw one and act it out. It was a way for students to put themselves inside the text. This passage came up one day, and the students found a rope and a blanket and decided to lower one of the guys from the balcony. Just before they did it, I said we should probably put a mattress underneath, because this might not go well. It did not go well. I will stop the story there. It is funny now. It was not funny then.

That is the point. These men did something costly and disruptive to bring their friend to Jesus. They were not just talking about faith. They put their faith into action. Their faith had hands. Their faith had feet. Their faith picked up the mat and carried the man. Their faith ripped off a roof and lowered him down. Their faith carried.


Does Your Faith Carry Anybody?

Maybe that is the question God wants to ask some of us. Does your faith carry anybody?

It is entirely possible to build a faith that is only about you. We can become so focused on ourselves that we forget how clearly Jesus said your faith is never just about Jesus in you. He calls us into a family. He calls us into a community. He calls us into a body. He calls us into a tribe.

A tribe means you are walking together. You are journeying together. You are protecting one another and picking one another up. Those men on the roof knew something simple and urgent: their friend needed to get in front of Jesus, and he was not going to get there on his own.


Why Christians Need Community in Both Seasons

Here is what makes this more than a nice idea. There are seasons in our faith when we are strong, and we carry someone else, and there are seasons when our faith is weak, and someone else needs to carry us. That is life group theology.

Think about your own life. Who are the people who carried you? Maybe it was a parent or a grandparent. Maybe a pastor, a friend, or your spouse. Maybe it was someone who showed up at the right moment with the right word. Maybe it was simply someone who said, "I am not leaving. I am here." That is a gift.


You Do Not Have to Pretend You Are Okay

Some of us need to hear this plainly. You do not have to pretend you are okay. You do not have to pretend you are strong. You do not have to pretend you have all the answers. There are going to be times when we are the one on the mat, and that is okay.

Many of us have quietly decided we will just carry ourselves. If there is a rope to hold, we will hold it for ourselves. We imagine we can rig a pulley system and hoist ourselves up whenever things get hard. But when you are genuinely weak, you cannot hoist yourself up. You need somebody. The Christian life was never designed to run on "I've got this." It was designed to run on "We've got you."

There will be seasons when you are holding the rope, and seasons when you are hanging onto it.


Who Is Holding Your Rope?

So let me ask you directly. Who is holding your rope? Who knows you well enough to know when you are not okay? Who can tell when you are struggling? Who will pray for you? Who will look honestly at your life and say, "You're drifting"?

Friends are great, but I want someone holding my rope who loves God more than they love me. Here is why. If they love me more than they love God, they will be afraid of hurting the friendship, and they will not tell me the truth. I need the truth.


The Friend Who Loved God Enough to Offend Me

This started to click for me early in ministry. My wife and I were part of a small group with a wonderful godly couple. We all went out to dinner one night and had a great time. The next morning the husband called me and asked if we could talk for a second.

He said, "Hey, I love you enough to tell you this." What he meant was that he loved God enough to offend me. Then he said, "You were a jerk last night."

My first reaction was to push back. Hang on, buddy. You do not get to tell me that. He explained that I had been making jokes at my wife's expense. I told him I did not believe him. We talked for a minute, and I hung up the phone, but it started to bother me.

When I got home, I never mentioned the phone call. I just went to my wife and said, "Hey sweetie, last night I made some jokes that were a little out of pocket. I should not have said them. I am sorry." She said, "You did." Then she said, "I forgive you. Thank you so much for telling me that."

That was the moment it hit me. This is what biblical community looks like. This is what it means to have someone who says, "I love you, and I love God more, and I will tell you the truth even if it hurts."


What a Life Group Is Actually For

That is why I believe so strongly in life groups. A life group is not just getting together for a study and a meal. It is taking the study and applying it. A life group is a group of people who decide together to follow Jesus, to pray for one another, to love one another, to encourage one another, and to challenge one another. We will know one another's stories. We will do this together.

If one person is weak, we will carry them. If I am weak, you will carry me.

That is why Christians need community. Not as a program to attend, but as a rope held by people who will not let go. So find your people, and be the kind of friend who tears open a roof to get someone in front of Jesus.

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August 31, 2026 • 7 Minute Read
Why You Need Friends Who Will Tell You the Truth
Christians need community because faith was never designed to be carried alone, and because you need at least one person who will tell you the truth about yourself. There are seasons when your faith is strong, and you carry somebody else. There are also seasons when your faith is weak, and someone else has to carry you. Both are normal. Both are grace. If you have ever assumed that a personal relationship with God is enough on its own, one of the strangest scenes in the Gospels pushes back. A group of friends heard that Jesus was teaching in a crowded house, and they could not get their paralyzed friend anywhere near Him. So they climbed up, tore open the roof, and lowered him down on a mat right in front of Jesus. It was reckless. It was a little crazy. And when Jesus looked up, the thing He responded to was their faith. Not just the faith of the man on the mat. Their faith. Their Faith Had Hands and Feet Sometimes we picture that man's helpers as reluctant participants, but he was clearly on board. Who else would let you lower them through a roof? I remember back in my days as a youth pastor, we used to do something called sermon in the box. I would write Bible verses on slips of paper, put them in a box, and a small group would draw one and act it out. It was a way for students to put themselves inside the text. This passage came up one day, and the students found a rope and a blanket and decided to lower one of the guys from the balcony. Just before they did it, I said we should probably put a mattress underneath, because this might not go well. It did not go well. I will stop the story there. It is funny now. It was not funny then. That is the point. These men did something costly and disruptive to bring their friend to Jesus. They were not just talking about faith. They put their faith into action. Their faith had hands. Their faith had feet. Their faith picked up the mat and carried the man. Their faith ripped off a roof and lowered him down. Their faith carried. Does Your Faith Carry Anybody? Maybe that is the question God wants to ask some of us. Does your faith carry anybody? It is entirely possible to build a faith that is only about you. We can become so focused on ourselves that we forget how clearly Jesus said your faith is never just about Jesus in you. He calls us into a family. He calls us into a community. He calls us into a body. He calls us into a tribe. A tribe means you are walking together. You are journeying together. You are protecting one another and picking one another up. Those men on the roof knew something simple and urgent: their friend needed to get in front of Jesus, and he was not going to get there on his own. Why Christians Need Community in Both Seasons Here is what makes this more than a nice idea. 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But when you are genuinely weak, you cannot hoist yourself up. You need somebody. The Christian life was never designed to run on "I've got this." It was designed to run on "We've got you." There will be seasons when you are holding the rope, and seasons when you are hanging onto it. Who Is Holding Your Rope? So let me ask you directly. Who is holding your rope? Who knows you well enough to know when you are not okay? Who can tell when you are struggling? Who will pray for you? Who will look honestly at your life and say, "You're drifting"? Friends are great, but I want someone holding my rope who loves God more than they love me. Here is why. If they love me more than they love God, they will be afraid of hurting the friendship, and they will not tell me the truth. I need the truth. The Friend Who Loved God Enough to Offend Me This started to click for me early in ministry. My wife and I were part of a small group with a wonderful godly couple. We all went out to dinner one night and had a great time. The next morning the husband called me and asked if we could talk for a second. He said, "Hey, I love you enough to tell you this." What he meant was that he loved God enough to offend me. Then he said, "You were a jerk last night." My first reaction was to push back. Hang on, buddy. You do not get to tell me that. He explained that I had been making jokes at my wife's expense. I told him I did not believe him. We talked for a minute, and I hung up the phone, but it started to bother me. When I got home, I never mentioned the phone call. I just went to my wife and said, "Hey sweetie, last night I made some jokes that were a little out of pocket. I should not have said them. I am sorry." She said, "You did." Then she said, "I forgive you. Thank you so much for telling me that." That was the moment it hit me. This is what biblical community looks like. 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DJay Akers

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August 24, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
Can God Use Someone With a Past Like Mine?
The short answer is yes, and the Bible makes the case through a woman most of her neighbors would have written off entirely. Rahab in the Bible is remembered as the Canaanite woman who hid two Israelite spies in Jericho and was spared when the city fell. What usually gets skipped is why she did it. She had never met an Israelite, never read Scripture, and never heard it read aloud. She acted because of a story she had been hearing her entire life, and she decided the story was true. If you have ever wondered whether your past puts you outside the reach of God, or whether faith is even possible when you have had no religious upbringing at all, Rahab's story is worth slowing down for. She had every reason to be written off. She ends up in the family line of Jesus. Who Was Rahab in the Bible? Joshua sends two spies to Jericho ahead of Israel's advance, and they are rescued from capture by a Canaanite prostitute named Rahab. Joshua had been one of the original twelve spies himself, so he knew what that assignment cost. This time he does not send ten or twelve. He sends two, in secret, because he already knows Jericho is where Israel is supposed to go first. God had ordered it, and Joshua had been instructed. These two may not have been especially good at spying. Word gets out that they are in town. We do not know how. We only know that word spreads, and that it spreads specifically that they have gone to the house of Rahab. Some scholars think that if you were a spy looking for information, Rahab would have been an intelligent person to approach. In her particular trade, a lot of secrets were shared, and in that era, prostitutes may have been some of the best informed people in a city about what was happening around them. Rahab Had to Choose Between Her Life and Theirs Once word reaches the king of Jericho, he sends his men to Rahab's door, and she is forced into a decision. She can turn the spies over, or she can commit treason. One of those options can get her killed. She chooses treason. She tells the men at the door that they have just missed the spies, that if they hurry down the road they will overtake them, and that if they do not leave that instant they will never find them. The men take her at her word and go. She had already taken the spies up to the roof of her house and hidden them there. We do not know exactly what her home looked like, though we understand it was built into the city wall and she had some access to a rooftop. She goes up to them and tells them they will need to leave that night, before the search party returns, and that they should travel the opposite direction from the one she sent their pursuers. Wait three days, she says, then return to your people. And remember me. What Made Rahab Believe in a God She Had Never Met? When the spies ask her what this kindness is and why she would do it, she answers with one of the more remarkable confessions in the Old Testament. She tells them she knows the Lord has given them the land, that the terror of them has fallen on Jericho, and that everyone living there has despaired. She recounts how the Lord dried up the Red Sea when Israel came out of Egypt, and what Israel did to the kings of the Amorites beyond the Jordan. When those reports reached the city, she says, their hearts melted, and no courage remained in anyone. Then comes the line that explains everything: the Lord your God is God in heaven above and on earth below (Joshua 2:11). Rahab possessed faith in the awesome power of God. Had she ever met an Israelite before? Probably not. Had she read Scripture? No. Had she heard it? No. And she still chose a crime punishable by death over self-preservation, because she believed. Notice what she believed specifically. Most of the gods of her time were regional and specialized: gods of agriculture, of the sun, of hunting, of sustenance. She is saying that the God of Israel holds heaven and earth together. He has everything. That would make Him a larger God than any she had ever heard of. And she was living in the most fortified city in her country. She knew Jericho did not stand a chance against Him. That is absolutely incredible. Faith Can Grow From a Testimony You Only Heard About Do the math on the timeline. The Red Sea had been parted roughly forty years before these spies walked into Jericho. For four decades, that word had been going out across the region. God was working through the testimony of Israel long before Israel ever arrived. That is what shifted Rahab's heart. Not a sermon, not a scroll, and not a personal encounter. A testimony that had been traveling for forty years finally landed on someone who decided to put her life on the line for it. I have to be honest here. Outside of what you read in the book of Acts, I have not run into many people like that. I have never had the experience of meeting someone who said, I have heard about Jesus my whole life, and I have just been waiting for someone to tell me how to receive Him. I would love to have that experience. I never have. But when the spies ask Rahab why she is helping them, she essentially says, I have been hearing about your God my whole life, and I believe He is who the stories say He is. Your Life Is Someone Else's Evidence Here is where this lands in ordinary life. People are watching how you live. They notice your acts of faith, your ability to suffer well, and your willingness to trust God with uncertainty. Whether you intend it or not, that becomes a testimony in someone else's life. It certainly works that way among believers. I have had conversations with friends where I watched them walk through something hard, and then God walked me into the same thing, and I was able to tell them, I believe God is going to bring me through this because of the way I saw Him do it for you. And I have been in the other seat. People have called me and said, " Your courage gave me courage.” There is a testimony at work, and it is usually older and wider than you realize. What Does the Scarlet Cord in Rahab's Story Mean? Before the spies escape, they give her terms. They promise to take care of her and everyone inside her household, but she has to tie a scarlet cord in her window. No cord, no protection. Keep the cord in the window, and they will remember her kindness. Fast-forward to the assault on the city, and Joshua tells the entire army to remember Rahab, look for the scarlet cord, and leave her and her family untouched. God is about to do a miracle at Jericho, but first, take care of Rahab. That cord is not coincidental by any means. When God brought Israel out of Egypt, He told them to take the blood of a lamb and paint their doorposts (Exodus 12). A scarlet cord hanging above a window in a doomed city is the same picture. And further down the line, we see the blood of Jesus on a cross. He is tying it all together. There are threads running throughout Old Testament Scripture into New Testament Scripture that say this is one story and that a redemption story is taking place. Why Rahab Appears in the Genealogy of Jesus Read the lineage of Jesus in Matthew 1, and Rahab shows up in it. Four women are named there, and one of them is a woman who was not an Israelite and who worked in a profession her culture considered shameful. Because of her faith in God, she was not only rescued from the fall of Jericho. She was restored to a position of value and dignity; she was married, and she ended up in the lineage of Jesus Christ our Savior. Who can do that? Only God can do that. Where This Leaves You Rahab in the Bible is more than a story about a resourceful woman who picked the winning side. She is evidence that God moves toward people who have no religious background, no heritage, and no clean record, and that He does not merely tolerate them once they arrive. He gives them a place in the story. Whatever you have heard about God secondhand, from a friend, a family member, or a stranger whose steadiness you could not quite explain, that testimony is doing more work than you think. Rahab acted on far less. And whatever you assume disqualifies you, hers was worse by every standard her culture had, and it did not hold.

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August 17, 2026 • 2 Minute Read
2026-8-17 Weekly Update
Welcome to the weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. This Week: Baptisms: Sunday, 8/30 Small Group Promo: this Sunday and next (8/30 & 9/6) Small Group Leader Training: Sunday, 8/30 | 6 PM | Student Center Prayer Requests: Our Mission: Small Group promotion and signups over the next few weeks. Email Leslie to be added to our prayer team. Our Community: Families, teachers, and school staff as schools get into full swing. World: Overseas partnerships. Upcoming Events Baptism Sunday:Sunday, August 30 Small Group Leader Training: Sunday, August 30 Church Conference (member voting on Budget and Leadership): Sunday, September 27New here? We'd love to connect. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Generosity Your generosity makes our work in this community possible. We’re so grateful for you. One way you support our community is through the food pantry. We’ve given out over 100 bags this year. You can see our weekly food and household needs here, or click the link below to see our Amazon wishlist!Food Pantry Amazon Wishlist Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 8:30 AM, 10:00 AM & 11:30 AM 15434 Lucia Riverbend Hwy, Stanley, NC 28164 See you soon ☀️

Wendy McSwain

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August 16, 2026 • 9 Minute Read
Standing Up for Your Values: What It Actually Costs You
Standing up for your values will require something of you every single time. That is not a warning meant to discourage you. It is simply the math. If holding a value never cost you anything, it was never really a value, just a preference you kept because it was convenient. The moment a value becomes expensive is the moment you find out whether you actually hold it. The book of Hebrews tells the story of a man who did the math and walked away from everything. In Hebrews 11:24-26, we read that by faith Moses, once he had grown up, "refused to be called the son of Pharaoh's daughter." He chose instead to endure mistreatment alongside the people of God rather than enjoy "the temporary pleasures of sin," because he considered "the reproach of Christ greater riches than the treasures of Egypt." He was looking to the reward. That is defiance. Not the defiance of law, but the defiance of culture and privilege. What Moses Actually Walked Away From It is easy to read that passage quickly and miss the size of the decision. Moses was raised inside Pharaoh's household. He could have had anything he wanted. The women, the money, the access to any room he cared to walk into. The hedonistic lifestyle that came with living in the palace was his for the taking, and he was willing to say that it was not for him. Moses made a choice based on his values. That is the whole of it. He valued connection with the people of God and with who he really was more than he valued privilege and wealth. At some point he said, in effect, I am Hebrew, and I would rather live as a Hebrew with my people and the values they hold than live as an Egyptian with the values they hold and the way they practice what they do. Why the Hebrews Account Reads Differently Than Exodus If you go back and read the Exodus account, you will notice it does not say any of this. All it tells us is that Moses went out from Pharaoh's house, saw an Egyptian beating a Hebrew, and acted. He committed murder, which was not the right thing to do, and he buried the body. The next day he came out and saw two Hebrews arguing. When he asked what they were doing, they answered with a question of their own: "What are you going to do about it?" Kill us like you did the Egyptian? Moses ran away in fear and spent a long stretch in Midian before God revealed Himself to him. So where does the language of choosing and refusing come from? Often what you see in the New Testament are things emerging from what is known as oral tradition, material passed along through the rabbis or preserved in other Hebrew texts and then brought into the letter. We believe that the material is informed by the Holy Spirit and gives us further wisdom and insight into the Old Testament Scriptures. What we see in Hebrews 11 is more insight into Moses than the Exodus narrative provides on its own. Who This Was Written For The writer of Hebrews had a specific audience in mind. He was writing to a group of people who had come out of Judaism, people who said We are ethnically still Jewish, but religiously we are Christians now; we follow Jesus. And there was a persistent temptation for them to return to what was comfortable. His message to them was simple. You do not have to go back to that. What you have here is better. Jesus is the better option. You are not the first person to leave something comfortable for something uncomfortable. You are not the first person to turn your back on something with real allure for something that does not carry as much of what the world values. Yes, you are leaving something that looks good. But you are leaving it for something so much better. That is the case he is making, and it is the same case being made to us. Standing Up for Your Values When There Is No Law to Defy Does this resonate more with our culture than the defiance of laws? It should. There are not many laws we have to defy today. But based on our values, we are called to live by faith, to defy culture, and to say plainly: I understand what culture values. I value something different. It is simply not the same for me. Why? Because my values come from the Word of God. Know this. Living by faith, which is to say living by your values, will require faith every single time. If you want to hold your values, it will require something of you. When My Son Had to Choose Between His Friends and His Values Here is a small example, but a real one. A value in our home, taught to our sons from the time they were very young, was this: be friendly to everyone, but choose your friends wisely. We said it almost every night before bed. One of our sons was a little antisocial, which is why we added the first half. He would come to church, someone would say hi, and he would barely respond. We needed to work on the friendly part. But we also did not want him to be friends with everyone. We wanted our sons to choose their friends wisely. My son started at a new school in fifth grade, which meant he was showing up late to the party. A lot of kids had already established their friendships, and he was really worried about making friends. The first group that genuinely accepted him was a group of guys he would come home ambivalent about. I would ask if they were okay, and he would say he did not want to talk about it. Probably a year later, after he entered middle school, he finally came to me and said, I cannot do it anymore. Do what? I cannot sit with them. Why? I keep asking them not to cuss, and they keep cussing. I keep asking them not to talk about vulgar things, but they keep doing it. Sometimes they will be good for a while, and then they will not be anymore. I just do not want to be around these people anymore. I told him I understood. Then I asked him two questions. Do you feel like you have tried to be a witness to them? I have. Have you tried to be an example? I have. Okay. What are you going to do? He said, I am sitting alone tomorrow. That is what you need to do, I told him. That is what you should do. What was playing out in real time was a value he had heard since he was four or five years old finally meeting the road. Choose your friends wisely. He had reached the point where he had to choose his values, and he chose his values. Did he make that decision quickly? Not at all. He tried for a long time to make it work. It just did not work anymore. The shoe did not fit, so he chose to sit somewhere else. What Happens After You Sit Alone He spent a couple of weeks sitting by himself, and I asked him what we were going to do about it. He did not know. So I said, son, you like to gather people; you like to invite people to things. What if you started a club during lunch, invited friends, and just saw who showed up? Maybe you will make some new friends. Perfect, he said. That is exactly what I am going to do. We brainstormed, and I assumed that the next day he would go to his Baptist Christian school and ask to start a board game club. Instead, he went to that same school, secured a host room, and collected 35 signatures for a Texas Hold'em poker club. Among the signatures were the principal and two teachers. The principal called me. Texas Hold'em poker was not valued in that school's culture, and my son had already told his mom about it in the car on the way home, in front of another teacher. We knew immediately we were going to tell that story forever. He pivoted, especially after I spoke with the principal, who laughed it off and was very good-natured. He started a board game club instead, and 45 kids showed up to the first meeting. He found his table. He found people to sit with. God provided in that way. It is a small, simple example. But there are simply going to be times when we have to choose our friends differently, and we make those choices differently than the culture does, because we base them on the values we draw from Scripture. What About the People You Cannot Choose? We can choose our friends. We cannot choose our coworkers. Do you ever wish you could? We do not have that option. But here is what we can choose. We can choose the type of person we will be around those coworkers. We can choose the kind of invitations we will accept from them. We can choose to be who we are in front of them, consistently, without apology and without announcement. There is an opportunity in defying culture, and it is an important one. You do not have to defy a law to live by faith. You only have to be willing to pay what your values cost, the same way Moses was, and trust that what you are choosing is so much better than what you are leaving.

Ben Markham

Lead Pastor

August 2, 2026 • 7 Minute Read
What God Reveals When He Doesn't Make Sense
You can know God, love God, and still look at your life and think, this doesn't add up. Faith doesn't require you to understand everything God is doing, but it does require a level of trust in who He is. And when God doesn't make sense, it's likely He is revealing something in that moment: either more of Himself to you, or something about you that you couldn't have seen any other way. That truth sits inside one of the hardest stories in Scripture. In Genesis 22, God asks Abraham to take his son Isaac up Mount Moriah and offer him there. Every promise God had made to Abraham depended on Isaac living. Now God appears to be asking for the opposite. Why God Sometimes Asks for the Blessing and Not the Sin God wasn't asking Abraham to give up something bad. If He had been, this story would be easy. Everyone can get on board with surrendering something evil. God was asking Abraham to surrender something beautiful: the son he loved, the miracle he prayed for, and the future he dreamed about. That's what makes this story so difficult. God wasn't asking Abraham to put sin on the altar. He was asking him to put the blessing on the altar. Sometimes the greatest test of faith is not giving up something evil but trusting God with something wonderful. Four Crises Abraham Carried Up the Mountain There was more than one crisis unfolding on that trail. At least four are worth naming. The Theological Crisis God asked for one thing, and now it seemed He was doing another. The promises required Isaac to live, and Abraham was being asked to make an offering of him. It simply wasn't adding up theologically. The Family Crisis One study makes an interesting observation: nowhere does Scripture record Abraham telling Sarah where he was going or what he was going to do. Imagine that conversation. Where are you going? Up the trail with Isaac. Where? Mount Moriah. And what will you be doing there? It's hard to believe that exchange ever happened, and the part that isn't funny at all is the weight of carrying something like that entirely by yourself. The Social Crisis Abraham goes up the mountain with his son and comes back down alone. Everyone is going to ask where his boy is. What is he supposed to say? That God told him to? Some people are going to start to think he's a psychopath. How does a man explain that? The Emotional Crisis This may be the hardest one in the scene, because Abraham looks at his life and has nothing left but a single question: God, why? What Do You Do When God's Plan Doesn't Make Sense? Let's be transparent. Have you ever found yourself in a season where the only honest prayer was, God, sometimes Your plans just don't make sense to me? Where you felt Him leading you one direction, and everything you were actually experiencing was taking you another? Maybe it was a health concern. Maybe it was a broken relationship, an unexpected job loss, a son or daughter who has wandered from the Lord, or a prayer that has gone on and on without an answer. Maybe you have looked at your life and whispered, God, I know You, and I love You, and this doesn't make sense to me. I just don't understand. There is good news in that moment. When you're wrestling, when you're asking why me, why this, and why now, it's likely God is revealing Himself to you, or revealing something about you. When I Couldn't Understand What God Was Doing In May of 2019, I was living in Michigan when I felt the Lord call me away from the ministry I was serving. I took a job in California, moved my family across the country, and trusted God's leading. His calling felt clear, and it very much seemed this was what the Lord had for me. We became part of an incredible church, and a fruitful season hit almost immediately in the student ministry where I was serving as a teaching pastor. Several months later, my mom called to tell me she had stage four cancer. Here is where the tension of the story sits. My parents divorced when I was two. I'm an only child. My mom's siblings had already passed away, and so had her parents. There was no one there to take care of her, and I was on the other side of the country following God's leading and trusting God's provision, unable to fly back all the time. I started to get angry with the Lord, asking Him who was going to take care of her. So my wife and I told her to move in with us and come out to California. She said she couldn't, because of her dog, Pebbles. Bring the dog, Mom. Well, what about Bob, her boyfriend? Bring Bob. There is plenty to do out here. She just said no. In November of 2020, my mom died. What I Prayed When I Was Angry With God I felt so much anger toward the Lord in that season, and I brought it straight to Him. God, I trust You. I love You. I know that You are sovereign, and sovereign means You know all things. That means You knew this was going to happen. So why did You move me? Why couldn't this have happened sooner, or why couldn't I have stayed longer? That's where I wrestled. I didn't get a tidy answer to any of those questions. What God Reveals When You Don't Understand Looking back now, I still don't understand everything God was doing. What I can say is that I discovered so much about the Lord in that season that I would never have learned any other way. There are details I can't go into, but I can share the biggest one. God loves my mom more than I ever could, and I didn't think anyone could love their mom more than I did. I flew home after doing her funeral, and somewhere in the air, with tears in my eyes, it came out: it is well with my soul. Lord, I was okay with You taking my mom. I just wasn't okay with how it happened, that I wasn't there. He began to minister to me right there, and all I could say was, God, You are good all the time, and all the time God is good. Faith Doesn't Require Understanding, Only Trust When God doesn't make sense, faith isn't the thing you're losing. It's the thing being tested, and the test is rarely about handing over something evil. More often it's about trusting Him with something wonderful: the child, the health, the relationship, or the future you had already started to picture. Faith doesn't require us to understand everything God is doing. It does require a level of trust in who He is. So if you're in a season where the pieces aren't adding up, you don't have to pretend you understand. You can keep talking to the God you know, saying out loud that you trust Him, that you love Him, and that this doesn't make sense yet, while you keep watching for what He is revealing about Himself and about you.

Ben Markham

Lead Pastor

July 21, 2026 • 2 Minute Read
2026-8-10 Weekly Update
Welcome to the weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. This Week: Demolition begins this week! Hesed House: Sunday, 8/16 - Teams will provide meal for residents. Life Groups: Meet throughout the week on campus and in homes. Prayer Requests: Our Mission: Pray for favor and a smooth process as we move forward with renovation timelines. Email Leslie to be added to our prayer team. Our Community: Teachers, students, and families as many transition back to school. World: Pray for our Honduras team and the precious people they ministered with and to over the last week. Upcoming Events 8:30 am Children’s Ministries: Began Sunday, August 2nd for babies-5th grade. Starting Point: Sunday, August 23 at 6 pm. Baptism Sunday:Sunday, August 30 Small Group Leader Training: Sunday, August 30New here? We'd love to connect. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Generosity Your generosity makes our work in this community possible. We’re so grateful for you. One way you support our community is through the food pantry. We’ve given out over 100 bags this year. You can see our weekly food and household needs here, or click the link below to see our Amazon wishlist!Food Pantry Amazon Wishlist Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 8:30 AM, 10:00 AM & 11:30 AM 15434 Lucia Riverbend Hwy, Stanley, NC 28164 See you soon ☀️

Wendy McSwain

Communications Director

July 20, 2026 • 2 Minute Read
2026-7-20 Weekly Update
Welcome to the weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. This Week: Young Adult Summer Nights: Tuesday, 7/21 at 6 PM! 18-24 year olds, come an hour early this week for BBQ! Meet you in the student center. Discovery Island Volunteer Training: Friday, 7/24 (6-9 PM) and Saturday, 7/25 (12-3 PM) in Discovery Island Life Groups: Meet throughout the week on campus and in homes. Prayer Requests: Our Mission: Pray for favor and a smooth process as we move forward with renovation timelines. Email Leslie to be added to our prayer team. Our Community: Families traveling for summer and many who are sick. World: Pray for our Honduras team as preparations are underway to travel on July 31. Upcoming Events 8:30 am Children’s Ministries - Begin Sunday, August 2nd for Babies - 4th grade. We still need your help to make sure our kids ministries are covered as we extend to all three services.New here? We'd love to connect. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Generosity Your generosity makes our work in this community possible. We’re so grateful for you. One way you support our community is through the food pantry. We’ve given out over 100 bags this year. You can see our weekly food and household needs here, or click the link below to see our Amazon wishlist!Food Pantry Amazon Wishlist Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 8:30 AM, 10:00 AM & 11:30 AM 15434 Lucia Riverbend Hwy, Stanley, NC 28164 See you soon ☀️

Wendy McSwain

Communications Director

July 20, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
How to Trust God With an Uncertain Future
Most of us spend a good deal of energy trying to remove uncertainty from our lives. We script the vacation, plan out the next few years, get detailed about as many things as we can, and quietly hope nothing catches us off guard. Certainty feels like safety. So it may sound strange to hear someone say they have no desire to live a life without uncertainty. But that is exactly what learning to trust God with an uncertain future has taught me. A life without uncertainty is a life that would not require faith. And a life of faith, as much of it as I can live, is simply a better life. When you look closely at Abraham, you see this at work. Abraham embraces uncertainty, while fear, by its very nature, tries to remove it. echo through the entire chapter for a reason worth understanding. Faith Embraces Uncertainty. Fear Tries to Remove It. Here is the difference in a single line. Faith embraces uncertainty. Fear attempts to remove it. When God called Abraham to leave everything familiar and go, Abraham went, even though he did not know exactly how it would unfold. I want you to hear this from me: I do not want to live a life without uncertainty. That might sound a little funny at first. But a life scrubbed clean of the unknown would be a life with no room left for faith. There are some things I would honestly rather not know. I do not need to know what tomorrow brings. That is a hard thing to sit with, and some of you are reading this thinking, "You don't understand. I script my vacations." Is It Wrong to Want a Plan? No. There is a real difference between being a person who likes to be prepared and being a person who is trying to eliminate uncertainty altogether. Preparation is good. I work hard on a message before I ever stand up to preach it. And yet there is a part of me every single week that says, "Lord, I don't know exactly how this is going to go. I just have to trust that it will be what You want it to be." I can prepare all I want, and there is still an element of faith. I never want to remove that. I just want to keep trusting God with the outcome. What Happens When You Stop Scripting Everything Years ago I ran into a man I deeply admired, Dr. Jack Hayford, who has since gone to be with the Lord. He pastored a church called Church on the Way in Van Nuys, California, a bilingual, deeply evangelistic church that grew to something like eight to ten thousand people. He was known as a man of tremendous integrity. The first two years of my Bible college were actually through his school, one of the original online programs for Christian students, and it was what I had available to me at the time. I got the chance to meet him and be shown around a little. We were making small talk, and he asked where I was from. I told him Michigan, and that my dad lives in Cadillac. He said, "Oh, I've been there." I could not figure out how a man in California had been to Cadillac, Michigan, so I asked him. That is when he told me how he and his wife vacation now that he is close to retirement. They pack bags with versatile clothing, drive to the airport, look up at the board, and decide where to go based on whatever the next flight happens to be. One of those flights had carried him into Grand Rapids, and he drove north until he landed in my hometown. Some of you read that, and it makes you shake. You are thinking, "I do not want a vacation like that." This is not about getting you to travel differently. What I want you to see is that there is something exciting you get invited into when you embrace uncertainty. When you can say, "We do not know exactly how this will work out, but we know we have heard from the Lord to obey Him," it becomes exciting, because you get to watch Him do something only He can do. The Best Decision We Ever Made This is how God has worked in my own life. When my wife and I were in our early 30s, we began to feel like God was bringing our story in Michigan to a close. It was where we were from, where we had lived our whole lives, where I had pastored for about twelve years. I just knew it was not there anymore. God had made that clear through a variety of means: His Word, other people, and our own prayer time. It was time to go. Some people I trusted sat us down and made sure I understood what I was leaving. They said, "You are at a church with its own Christian school. You have two boys, two and four. You can raise them in a wonderful Christian school, probably for free. Your wife is a teacher, and they will give her a job. You have earned all this trust and credibility over ten years. Why would you leave that?" Then they asked, "Do you even know where you are going to live in Florida?" We did not. We were going to stay temporarily at a pastor's empty house. "Do you know where your kids will go to school?" No. "Do you know where your wife will work?" No. "What are you thinking?" I said, "I think God's got it." They said that seemed irresponsible. I said, "It's called faith." I have come to believe that if we have a few fill-in-the-blank questions left in our lives, He likes to fill them in Himself, and then He likes to get the glory and the credit for it. To live a life where He gets the glory is a better life. It is not about what I was able to pull off. When God says go, we go. We were young. We were basically kids, a little family that jumped into a 1998 Chevy Malibu convinced it would make it to Florida. It did not. It broke down in Valdosta, Georgia. Our boys, Max and Malachi, were so small then. On our very first Sunday, Max had a total meltdown and could not be brought up on stage, but little Malachi was there, and God started something that day. When I look back, I can only say that He wrote a better story than I would have. He wrote a better story than I would have, and I am confident He is still doing that. Is the Center of God's Will Really the Safest Place? My wife and I have tried our whole lives, because of the people who discipled us, to stay in the center of God's will. But one of the great lies that gets caught more than it gets taught in the church is the phrase, "The safest place is in the center of God's will." Let me step right on that. The safest place is not the center of God's will. Hear me carefully. It is the most fulfilling place. It is the right place. But it is not the safest place. When God called Abraham from Haran to Canaan in Genesis 12, He was not calling him into safety. He was calling him into faith. We get so obsessed with keeping everything as safe as possible, wanting every part of life secured and settled. God has not called us to live safe lives. Faithful, Not Fearless Did Abraham still struggle with fear? Of course. When he stepped into new territory, he was the one who said, "Let's tell them you are my sister." He was not a fearless man. But he was a faithful one. In the big moments, when God said get up and leave, he got up and left everything he knew and every connection he had. That is the invitation, and it comes with a cost. You do not get to experience the benefits of faith without paying the price of obedience. Trusting God with an uncertain future will not guarantee that everything will feel safe. What it offers is better than safe. It is the chance to watch God write a story you never could have written on your own, if you are willing to get up and go when He says go.

Ben Markham

Lead Pastor

July 13, 2026 • 2 Minute Read
2026-7-13 Weekly Update
Welcome to the weekly roundup 👋 This is your one-stop spot for everything happening in our church family. From kids to adults, small groups to special events, here's how you can get connected over the next seven days. This Week: Route 56 Camp: Monday, July 13 - Friday, July 19 Photo Team Meeting: Tuesday, July 14 at 6:30 pm in the worship center lobby. Current team members or those interested in photo and video at Real Life are welcome. Prison Ministry: Thursday, July 16 at 6 pm Honduras Team Meeting: Sunday, July 19 at 1 pm in Discovery Island Life Groups: Meet throughout the week on campus and in homes. Prayer Requests: Our Mission: Pray for our Route 56 Camp this week – praying for great weather, attitudes, energy levels, and hearts touched by Jesus! Email Leslie to be added to our prayer team. Our Community: Families traveling for summer and many who are sick. World: Pray for our Honduras team as preparations are underway to travel on July 31. Upcoming Events 8:30 am Children’s Ministries - Begin Sunday, August 2nd for Babies - 4th grade. We still need your help to make sure our kids ministries are covered as we extend to all three services. Sunday, July 19, 6:00 pm - Hesed House MealNew here? We'd love to connect. Watch last week’s sermon 👇Watch Online Generosity Your generosity makes our work in this community possible. We’re so grateful for you. One way you support our community is through the food pantry. We’ve given out over 100 bags this year. You can see our weekly food and household needs here, or click the link below to see our Amazon wishlist!Food Pantry Amazon Wishlist Stay Connected 📩 Subscribe to this Collection to get these updates delivered directly to your inbox. 📸 Follow us on Facebook, Instagram, TikTok, and YouTube. 💬 Pastoral care or questions? Connect with us here. Services: Sundays at 8:30 AM, 10:00 AM & 11:30 AM 15434 Lucia Riverbend Hwy, Stanley, NC 28164 See you soon ☀️

Wendy McSwain

Communications Director

July 13, 2026 • 8 Minute Read
How to Trust God When You Can't See What He's Doing
Some seasons of following God ask you to move before you can see where you are going. You sense Him leading, but the outcome is invisible, the timeline is unclear, and everyone around you seems to be asking how you can be so sure. Learning how to trust God when you can't see what He is doing is not a lesson reserved for spiritual professionals. It is the ordinary work of faith, and Scripture hands us an ordinary man to show us how it is done. In Hebrews 11:7, the writer holds up Noah: "By faith Noah, being warned by God about things not yet seen." Those first two words, "by faith," echo through the entire chapter for a reason worth understanding. What Does It Mean to Have Faith? At its root, faith is implicit trust in the character and nature of God. That phrase repeats over and over in Hebrews 11, and the repetition is deliberate. The writer is speaking to the early church, a suffering and struggling people, and he is working to build their faith. To trust God's character is to trust two things about Him: His goodness and His power. We trust that God is genuinely good, exactly the way He explains Himself, and that He is powerful enough to do what He said He would do. How do we know He is good? The cross. It is the most powerful demonstration of love, kindness, and goodness in the history of the world. How do we know He is powerful? The empty tomb, because He is the only One who has ever defeated sin and death like that. He is good because of the cross. He is powerful because of the empty tomb. If you hold onto nothing else, hold onto that. Faith Is Believing God Will Do What He Said Essentially, faith is believing that God will do what He said He will do. When you read "by faith" stamped over Noah's life, you are reading a man saying, "I believe God will do what He said He will do." I have an uncle who was a pastor, and one year he served as my camp counselor. I was around fifteen, and he taught a series of devotionals I have never forgotten. That very line came straight from him: faith is believing that God will do what He said He will do. Then he added a second step. Faith is also believing that God is good, and that He will do what He said He will do for you. It is not merely a broad, blanket statement for everyone. It is true of you, individually. That still builds my faith today. When God's Character Is Hard to Understand God warns Noah that something is coming. In Genesis 6:13, He says, "The end of humanity has come before me, for the earth is filled with violence," and He instructs Noah to build an ark of gopher wood. Yet in the same warning, He makes a promise, telling Noah in Genesis 6:18, "I will establish my covenant with you." This is where some of us have to wrestle honestly. We serve a loving God who looks at humanity, sees it overcome with violence, and chooses to end all but one family and start over. That is a difficult thing to sit with. Some have looked at God and called Him a murderer, even accused Him of genocide. If that makes you uncomfortable, the discomfort is worth facing rather than smoothing over. Why should it feel good to learn that humankind had become so corrupt that violence was an everyday practice everywhere you looked? What it really meant was that the iron rule was in effect. Whoever was most powerful took whatever they wanted from whoever they could, all the time and everywhere. The Golden Rule was being practiced nowhere. People were not doing to others as they would have others do to them. So what part of God's character do we see here? We see God as a judge. In our culture, when a judge sentences someone to prison, we do not call the judge an abuser. When a judge hands down even the hardest sentence, we generally understand the judgment as fitting the crime. God, our Creator and the Judge of all things, is saying the punishment fits the crime, and we have to trust Him with that even when it is hard to see. He will judge every one of us; He will judge the nations, and His judgment is perfect and right. That same judgment is also what spares Noah and his family. Faith in Things Not Yet Seen Here is where the story becomes genuinely interesting. Hebrews 11:7 says Noah was warned "about things not yet seen." In Genesis 6:17, God declares, "I myself am bringing the flood of water upon the earth." There had never been a worldwide event like this. Noah is being warned about something he has no concept of. He does not fully understand it; he does not even know how it will happen; he simply knows it is coming because God has told him. The writer of Hebrews includes Noah to remind us of one thing: our faith is not in what we see; it is in who we know. Noah is a wonderful example of an ordinary person who put his faith in an extraordinary God. His posture was simple. "I can't fully understand what is going to happen, I can't see it, I have never experienced it before, but if You said it, I believe it. I'll take You at Your word." That is exactly how the chapter opens. Hebrews 11:1 says, "Now faith is the certainty of things hoped for, a proof of things not seen." To be a follower of Jesus, to be His disciple, means believing not only in the supernatural but in the invisible. That is difficult for our culture, and for skeptics to accept. How to Trust God When You Can't See Him Working Every day I pray to the Lord whom I cannot see. I surrender my life again; I lay it down before Him, and I pick up the cross He has given me in order to follow Jesus, a man I have never met. I see God's activity around my life. I believe I have a personal relationship with Jesus through the Holy Spirit, and that He speaks to me. But these are invisible things. It is by faith that we read the Word, by faith that we pray, and by faith that we trust the Holy Spirit is speaking to us and through us. Living that kind of life is awesome. You will find yourself saying things to other people and wondering whether the Holy Spirit just spoke through you, because you know you are not that smart or that good on your own. You will hold faith in moments when others cannot understand how you have any peace at all. The reason is simple. Something invisible is at work inside you. They cannot see it, but you can feel it, understand it, and know it. It is all an act of faith. Paul says the same thing while writing about death. In 2 Corinthians 5:6-8, he writes that we are "always of good courage," that "we walk by faith, not by sight," and that he would prefer to be absent from the body and at home with the Lord. Think of Enoch, a man who walked with God and then was simply with God, with no record that he ever died. Do you think that took courage? I have to imagine it took real faith. It is hard to picture the conversation where God says, in effect, "Enoch, your time is done, why not come spend time with Me here, since we already spend so much time together," and Enoch simply answers, "Okay." Most of us would freeze at "right now." But Enoch trusted God, even in the face of death. Faith in Who You Know Noah had faith in things he could not see. So did Enoch. So can you. The invitation of Hebrews 11 is not to manufacture certainty about outcomes you can predict and control. It is to anchor your trust in the character of the God who is speaking to you. He is good, proven at the cross. He is powerful, proven at the empty tomb. And He is good to you, individually, not just to everyone in general. When you cannot see what God is doing, remember that your faith was never meant to rest on what you can see. It rests on who you know. That is what turned an ordinary man like Noah into such a beautiful picture of faith, and it is what can steady you the next time God asks you to trust Him before the outcome is ever in view.

Ben Markham

Lead Pastor

July 6, 2026 • 7 Minute Read
How to Walk With God: What Enoch's 300 Years Teach Us
Most of us want to be close to God. We want a faith that feels real, steady, and alive. Yet if we are honest, our walk with God is often not what we want it to be. It starts strong and then stalls. It shows up on the good days and quietly disappears on the hard ones. Long before us, a man named Enoch showed a different way. Scripture says he walked with God for 300 years (Genesis 5:22). Not for a season, and not only when it was convenient, but day after day for three centuries. His life answers a question many of us are quietly asking: what does it really mean to walk with God? The answer begins with the foundation of his faith, found in Hebrews 11:6: "without faith it is impossible to please Him, for he who comes to God must believe that He is, and that He is a rewarder of those who seek Him." The Foundation: A Faith That Pleases God Enoch's faith, and ours, begins with a simple recognition: real faith is God-centered rather than self-centered. There is nothing good within me that can earn God's favor or please Him. I cannot outgive Him. I cannot become holier than Him, because He is God and I am not. So faith starts by admitting that it is about God and what pleases Him, not about me and what I want. Faith Believes That God Is Real Faith also acknowledges that God actually exists. The people of Enoch's day were not much different from people today. Many did not believe in the Creator God. They ignored the spoken witness of Adam and his sons, Seth and Enoch, and their descendants, and they ignored the witness of creation itself. As Psalm 19:1 says, "the heavens declare the glory of God, and the skies proclaim the work of His hands." Despite the evidence, many rejected the Creator outright, or they tried to reduce Him to an idol they could grasp and control. That denial led them to believe they could live however they pleased, with no thought of judgment or consequence. This is why sin always thrives wherever God's existence is rejected. Faith Believes God Rewards Those Who Seek Him Believing that God exists, however, is not enough for a relationship with Him. James 2:19 reminds us that "even the demons believe and tremble." A faith that pleases God must also believe that He rewards those who seek Him. We do not seek God in order to collect rewards. But as we seek to know Him, we begin to see that He is holy and I am not. We see that the sin in my life has created a separation, a gap between God and me that I cannot bridge on my own. And as we keep seeking, we discover that God loved the world so much that He built the bridge Himself. That bridge was built on the life, death, and resurrection of Jesus. When we diligently seek God the Father, He leads us to Jesus every time. This is why Scripture, in both the Old and New Testaments, calls us to actively seek God. Jeremiah 29:13 promises, "You will seek Me and find Me when you seek Me with all your heart." Matthew 6:33 adds, "but seek first the kingdom of God and His righteousness, and all these things will be added to you." Faith is belief in action, and that action is seeking God. What Does God Reward Us With? So what are the rewards Hebrews 11 points to? Simply this: everything God could give for your good is yours. Being made right, counted sinless in God's eyes through faith in what Christ has done, is one reward. But He gives so much more. He gives forgiveness, a new heart, the Holy Spirit, eternal life, blessing, mercy, grace, peace, joy, love, and heaven itself. Everything that is for our good, He gives. That is the foundation of a faith that pleases God: believing that He is, and that if you seek Him, you will find Him. It was the foundation of faith for Enoch, and it is the foundation for you and me. What Does a Walk With God Actually Look Like? If that is the foundation, what did Enoch's faith look like in practice? His life reveals two clear marks of a walk with God. A Walk With God Is Consistent Enoch did not walk with God for a little while. He walked with God for 300 years. I have been trying to walk with God for about forty years, and Enoch's three centuries put that in perspective. His was a walk of day after day, moment by moment, a deep and steady connection with God the Father. A consistent walk has to be intentional because no one falls into good habits by accident. It takes intention and effort. Are you intentional about reading your Bible? About attending services regularly? About serving, about your generosity, about praying? This is not meant to produce guilt. It is meant to help you see clearly that you cannot walk with God while you wait until you feel like it, because that day rarely comes. Enoch did not walk with God only when he had nothing else to do, only when he was having a good day, or only when he felt like going for a walk. His walk was consistent because it was intentional, something he put real effort into. A Walk With God Is Relational A walk of faith is not only consistent, but it is also relational. Let us be honest: many of us are not very good at relationships. We struggle to build deep bonds with others, often because we fear rejection or getting hurt. Here is the good news. God already knows how messed up you are, and He loves you anyway. You do not have to hide anything from Him, because He already knows. You can be honest with Him and share your deepest struggles, your darkest fears, and even your doubts. You can also share your joys. The Creator of the universe takes pleasure in you. He wants to take walks with you every day. He wants to hear everything you are learning about Him, and He wants to teach you more about Himself than you have ever dreamed of knowing. Enoch walked with God because he loved God more than anything else. So if your walk with God is not what you want it to be, stop and ask what is getting in the way. What do I love more than God? Some of us love sleep more than God. Some love money, some love pleasure, and some of us love ourselves more than we love God. Are You Walking With God, or Asking Him to Follow You? That question cuts to the heart of it: am I walking with God, or am I simply asking Him to follow me? Enoch's consistent, intentional, and relational walk pleased God the Father and was evident to everyone around him. The same walk is open to you. It rests on the faith that He is real and that He rewards those who seek Him, and it grows through a daily, honest relationship with the God who already knows you and still loves you. He built the bridge to close the gap through Jesus. The invitation now is not to ask God to follow your life, but to begin walking with Him, one intentional and honest day at a time.

Clint Rhoney

Executive Pastor